Duties of a Good Mom

By Cindy Thomas


Love is the most important gift you can give your children. Always love them no matter what they do. And also always hug them no matter how old they may think they are. Everyone needs hugs to survive. Every time your child does something naughty like spill juice on your brand new furniture, just take a deep breath and count to ten. Train yourself to count. It might not save tears, but it will save pain. Sometimes it's really hard not to yell and all mothers yell at some point.

Respect is the key to every relationship. Learning to give respect to your children is essential. It is only when you give respect that you receive them. Appreciating them on all the little things, they do. Encouraging them will result in wanting them to do more. It is important for children to understand family ethics. As a parent, it is necessary to show children how much you are willing to do for the family. Children should be aware of how hard their parents work and care for their needs. This will teach them to do the same to their family in the future. Parents are responsible for building a loving home for children to grow in.

Set goals for your children, your family and yourself. Have you family involve in your goals. Teaching your children to make their own goals and challenge them to achieve them. For example, If they want to something in particular or a specific toy and it is not yet Christmas or her birthday, have them do some chores around the house that they normally don't do and have them earn their needs. This way they will value want they receive.

Every family has their own tradition and histories. Teaching your children holiday traditions and daily traditions are necessary. We would spread awareness by cooking the old traditional recipe or sing old traditional songs. It is necessary to keep family traditions alive so that you can keep the family close and keep the traditions alive.

Always answer the questions asked by your children. Talk to them, learn what they want out of life and answer their questions. Children would much rather hear about life from people they love and trust than from complete strangers or friends. Your children will love and respect you more for talking with them. A mom is the best person to influence their children to be the best they can be. Be kind to your children. They are born innocent. Keep them that way as long as possible. Treat your children with dignity, respect and love and they will treat you with the same.




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