There are many aspects to a successful relationship, but one of the most important is that of trust, If you can't trust your partner the relationship will founder. To have a healthy and working relationship, both parties must be trustworthy and honest. More relationships have been ruined because of one partner hiding things from the other person
There are 5 important tips that can be utilized in working out any trust problem. They are personal and you and your partner will need to speak to this situation honestly. Here are the tips:
Tip Number one is to search your self and see where your self esteem is at this moment. Is it as high as when you entered the relationship, or has it sunk because of things that have been said or done to make your feel worthless?
Take a peek into the past and try to remember any times that you were put down by a parent, teacher, or friend. It may have hurt at the time, but it could still be festering in your mind and emotions. These emotions are not good for any relationship and you should make every effort to banish them.
The third tip is to talk to your partner about anything you may have done while in the relationship. If you have been unfaithful, you must come out and talk about it, no matter how painful it may be. You need to be able to talk about these times with love and kindness, as this will save you, in the long run, from emotions that you would be unable to release that could make you physically ill.
Also show your willingness to address these issues by committing yourself once more full force into the relationship. This will give your partner the sense that you are really sorry, and that you want to do anything to make up for your behaviour. Perhaps renewing your marriage vows is a good place to start.
The fifth tip (the 'golden' one), is to focus on communicating more thoroughly with your partner. Many people say that the other person never listens to them. Show your partner that what he/she says is of great importance, and don't sit watching TV when the other person wants to talk. Be available for a chat anytime.
If you are serious about repairing your relationship, try to put all the tips we have shown you into practise. You will soon see a difference.
There are 5 important tips that can be utilized in working out any trust problem. They are personal and you and your partner will need to speak to this situation honestly. Here are the tips:
Tip Number one is to search your self and see where your self esteem is at this moment. Is it as high as when you entered the relationship, or has it sunk because of things that have been said or done to make your feel worthless?
Take a peek into the past and try to remember any times that you were put down by a parent, teacher, or friend. It may have hurt at the time, but it could still be festering in your mind and emotions. These emotions are not good for any relationship and you should make every effort to banish them.
The third tip is to talk to your partner about anything you may have done while in the relationship. If you have been unfaithful, you must come out and talk about it, no matter how painful it may be. You need to be able to talk about these times with love and kindness, as this will save you, in the long run, from emotions that you would be unable to release that could make you physically ill.
Also show your willingness to address these issues by committing yourself once more full force into the relationship. This will give your partner the sense that you are really sorry, and that you want to do anything to make up for your behaviour. Perhaps renewing your marriage vows is a good place to start.
The fifth tip (the 'golden' one), is to focus on communicating more thoroughly with your partner. Many people say that the other person never listens to them. Show your partner that what he/she says is of great importance, and don't sit watching TV when the other person wants to talk. Be available for a chat anytime.
If you are serious about repairing your relationship, try to put all the tips we have shown you into practise. You will soon see a difference.
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