How Can I Get Back Together With My Ex If I Decide That Is What Is Good For Me?

By Will Scott


Was the breakup you went thru sort of tough on you? Maybe you are lonely and confused. Perhaps you require help decoding whether getting back together with your ex is the proper thing for you to do.

Do you want to know how you can get back together with your ex quickly?

Well, there is no magical formula or love potion that is going to help get over your broken heart. If I had that I would really be a well off man.

There are things that help, though, like time and the love of friends and family.

Yet there could be a way it's possible to get your ex to come back to you, and would that not be nice. This technique is not a guarantee, because it doesn't always work. Since it does work frequently enough, though, I would like to tell you about it so you may consider giving it a try.

The initial step is for you to leave your ex alone for some time, a fortnight or perhaps even a couple of months. I know, this is going to be rough to do, but it is important.

There are two main reasons you need to do this. The first reason is that you will need to spend this time alone working on yourself and making changes to the individual that you are

The second is that if you're continually hounding your ex and pleading with them to get back together you are just making yourself look weak and pathetic. And if a weak, pathetic person is assumed attractive by your ex then maybe you ought to be chasing somebody better.

So while you are letting your ex learn what life will actually be like without you (and missing you) you are going to be truthfully evaluating who you are and what you should change about yourself.

I don't mean change things so that your ex will want you, this work is not about your ex, it is actually all about you, and becoming the best person you can be. This is about you growing as a human being and improving.

When you have spent this time working on your own self then you can contact your ex, casually, and ask if they would like to meet up. Don't talk about reconciling, at least not at the moment , just hang out and enjoy each other.

Then if you have made changes and improved yourself your ex will notice, become interested and ideally he will be the one to proffer the two of you get back together.




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