7 Vital Signals That He Will Not Be Thinking About You Any Longer

By Marti Francis


To break up a relationship is a tougher than you think, specially for a long-term relationship. In most circumstances when man is no longer thinking about a connection he does not want to be the one to end it. But even when he is already determined to break it up, he will take some time to give you some signs to prepare you, before he tells you. Should you feel that things are not going well, it is time to take a closer look at your situation and find a way to melt your man's heart again and to ensure a connection with him emotionally before the relationship going to a tail spin. Here are seven warning signs he may not be interested in you any more:

1. This is probably the most classic subtle signal of all: his life becomes too hectic. He hasn't picked up the phone for a few days and when he does, he is busy and pretending that he doesn't have time to meet you. This isn't necessarily a sign that it is over, but if you are used to meet him frequently then there is something wrong.

2. Eventually, when he decided to spend some time with you he keeps looking around to find something to do or someone else to talk to. However, when a man is interested, he puts in the effort by giving you his full attention.

3. Is he creating arguments for stupid minor issues? If whatever you do or say is not appropriate to him any longer and all that goes incorrect is your fault, then you have a reason to be concerned.

4. If he doesn't ask you questions and shows no interest in what you have to say, or when you ask him questions he limits his answers to "yes" and "no", he has a problem. Can it be the relationship with you?

5. He became very private and kept everything to himself. He no longer wants to tell you where he has been or who was on the phone.

6. He talks about other people's divorce or break up as something good. Possibly a buddy of his has just broken up with his girlfriend and now he is doing much better and happier.

7. He hasn't brought you flowers or presents lately, if he has been doing this regularly. He may feel guilty because he may be thinking about breaking up with you, especially if you know he has been buying flowers, but you have not gotten any.

In the game of romance, few things are black and white. Most of the seven points above are assumptions based on commonly used techniques. There is room for interpretations and misunderstandings but all this can make you wonder if everything is ok and discuss the problems you might have.




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