If you are reading this article you have ambition. You feel the desire to make something of yourself. You would like your life to have meaning and for people to look at you and say, "they are exceptional"
When ambitious people ask me, "how do I make a success of my life?" I always give them the same answer, "do it your way?" This is one of the foundation NLP techniques.
Way too many people try to find success by trying to be something that they are not. They see others succeeding in sales or acting or gambling and they think to themselves, "that is the way to achieve success. I'm going to do what that person does." Do you know what? It never works for them.
The truth is that success is a very individual thing. It is dependent on us discovering what we are good at and then leveraging those abilities and abilities to make them valuable to other people who will desire to get them from us.
You could be very good at making sponges or writing or building or lecturing. After you know precisely what you are good at take your skills to a more elevated level. Then find a market for your skills or products or services.
How does anyone find what you are good at? Study what you gives you pleasure. We generally get to be good at the things that we like to do. I do not mean watching movies or singing in the bath. I mean some talent or skill that has commercial value or can be made to have commercial value.
You don't have to be better than others at what you do. Rather you have got to find a way to make what you do valuable. Then all you need to do is find a market for the product or service that you provide.
It's not even important to be unique or original. There are many different brands of computers and motor car, all successful. What makes them valued by consumers is their image and the special characteristics that they offer to the market.
When ambitious people ask me, "how do I make a success of my life?" I always give them the same answer, "do it your way?" This is one of the foundation NLP techniques.
Way too many people try to find success by trying to be something that they are not. They see others succeeding in sales or acting or gambling and they think to themselves, "that is the way to achieve success. I'm going to do what that person does." Do you know what? It never works for them.
The truth is that success is a very individual thing. It is dependent on us discovering what we are good at and then leveraging those abilities and abilities to make them valuable to other people who will desire to get them from us.
You could be very good at making sponges or writing or building or lecturing. After you know precisely what you are good at take your skills to a more elevated level. Then find a market for your skills or products or services.
How does anyone find what you are good at? Study what you gives you pleasure. We generally get to be good at the things that we like to do. I do not mean watching movies or singing in the bath. I mean some talent or skill that has commercial value or can be made to have commercial value.
You don't have to be better than others at what you do. Rather you have got to find a way to make what you do valuable. Then all you need to do is find a market for the product or service that you provide.
It's not even important to be unique or original. There are many different brands of computers and motor car, all successful. What makes them valued by consumers is their image and the special characteristics that they offer to the market.
About the Author:
As an NLP Practitioner my mission is, "to enable you to make changes in your thinking, your feelings and your behaviour that will make your performance excellent both at work and in your personal life". I achieve results for the staff of major companies like Dell, Yves St.Laurent, J&J, RBI, GM and P&O through business coaching using NLP Techniques.
