How To Handle Seeing Your Ex

By Daniel D. Dalton


You are at the mall and you accidentally see your ex together with his friends, what can you do? Pretend that you didn't see him or be more casual and say "hi"? If you're trap in this kind of scenario your initial reaction is to hide and think what you ought to do in front of him especially if you still love him. Whenever you are in this situation the best thing that you should do is to face your ex without any hesitation. Do not let him notice that you still have feelings on him or you are awkward with you meeting him. Also, make sure which you won't do anything which will make him realized which you nevertheless love him.

Don't Panic

Meeting your ex following a number of years or months after you broke up can really be awkward but you can usually surpass this by just being your self. You can start by giving him a sweet smile and when he smiles back that will be the time which you say hi to him. You are able to talk about points that happened in past days but in no way bring back what happened why you separated.

This way it would give you the chance to turn out to be buddies once again. Actually, saying hi to your ex, isn't truly a difficult thing to complete especially should you already moved on. Nevertheless, if you're the cause why you broke up that is currently a various situation to manage. If the breakup is just fresh for the both of you and also the reason why you separated isn't really good perhaps the very first thing that you should whenever you meet is to smile at him and be casual.

You Had Me At Hello

Saying "hi" for your ex could be a great start of a new beginning of friendship. You'll never know how it would end maybe you'll turn out to be much more than just buddies and realized which you are really meant to be together. It's not a bad idea to say "hi" to your ex in fact it is the bravest point to complete for couples who are no longer committed to every other. Forget the past and also the cause of the breakup for you to move on to ensure that in case you finally meet every other again you no longer need to feel pain.

Meeting Up

If you haven't had a great conversation to close everything that you had within the past meeting him will probably be a good move. Set a date with him so that both of you can move on and forget the points that happened. This way you're giving yourself the opportunity to clear things and patch it up. Do not hesitate to say "hi" it'll help you to overcome the guilt or pain that you felt. Face him with confidence and never let him notice which you are nevertheless in love with him, show him that you have moved on particularly if he has hurt you deeply. Do not be afraid to say "hi" it will make you feel better.

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