It seems that you're done with the pain from your breakup. You never thought that this day would come and you were sure that you would love your ex forever but now you feel real hate for the one that you loved. You are confused. You aren't quite sure even if you want to get your ex back. Will this feeling last and what do you do now?
Try to hold onto this emotion. It might be tempting to feel bad about getting angry with your ex. You will still have moments when you feel love and a desire to get back together with your ex but that doesn't mean that you should feel bad about your anger. You were dumped. You were rejected. Your ex isn't giving you the opportunity to make things right in your relationship and they might be acting rude. Maybe they're even with someone else and it hurts you to see them together.
Being angry is not a wrong emotion or something that needs to be eliminated from your life for right now. Just think about how you might feel if a close friend betrayed you and said that they didn't want to be friends with you anymore. There was no chance to make amends or make things right. They just left you. Your ex was like your best friend, wouldn't you say? Now, all of this doesn't mean that you should confront your ex and let them have a piece of your mind. This might ruin your chances of getting them back or if nothing else, that would just make matters worse.
Think of your anger as a vehicle that you can use to push you along to rebuilding your life. Your ex rejected you and now you are going to show them just what they're missing out on. In life, we all make mistakes and we all deserve forgiveness but your ex dumped you. You wouldn't do that to a friend and your ex shouldn't have done that to you. Use your anger over all of this to reinvent yourself and make your ex see that you are a pretty awesome person and then the ball will be in your court.
Take your anger and use it to motivate yourself when you're feeling down. Use it to bring into your life the things that you always dreamed of. Let it help you to get up off the couch and start doing something with your life. You are worthy and you are someone that people like and admire. Let you anger help you to believe in yourself again instead of allowing the rejection to rule your life. You deserve to be loved and loved by someone that is going to treat you well, encourage you and devote themself to you and you alone. You need love and affection the same as anyone else in this world and you're going to get it.
Take the day that you start to feel angry as a beginning of a new era for you. Your anger means that you are well into the healing stage and that you have some respect for yourself. You value yourself as a person and you become upset and angry when people who are supposed to love you and care for you leave you. Use your anger to move past the hurt and pain and win your ex back if that is what you want in life.
Try to hold onto this emotion. It might be tempting to feel bad about getting angry with your ex. You will still have moments when you feel love and a desire to get back together with your ex but that doesn't mean that you should feel bad about your anger. You were dumped. You were rejected. Your ex isn't giving you the opportunity to make things right in your relationship and they might be acting rude. Maybe they're even with someone else and it hurts you to see them together.
Being angry is not a wrong emotion or something that needs to be eliminated from your life for right now. Just think about how you might feel if a close friend betrayed you and said that they didn't want to be friends with you anymore. There was no chance to make amends or make things right. They just left you. Your ex was like your best friend, wouldn't you say? Now, all of this doesn't mean that you should confront your ex and let them have a piece of your mind. This might ruin your chances of getting them back or if nothing else, that would just make matters worse.
Think of your anger as a vehicle that you can use to push you along to rebuilding your life. Your ex rejected you and now you are going to show them just what they're missing out on. In life, we all make mistakes and we all deserve forgiveness but your ex dumped you. You wouldn't do that to a friend and your ex shouldn't have done that to you. Use your anger over all of this to reinvent yourself and make your ex see that you are a pretty awesome person and then the ball will be in your court.
Take your anger and use it to motivate yourself when you're feeling down. Use it to bring into your life the things that you always dreamed of. Let it help you to get up off the couch and start doing something with your life. You are worthy and you are someone that people like and admire. Let you anger help you to believe in yourself again instead of allowing the rejection to rule your life. You deserve to be loved and loved by someone that is going to treat you well, encourage you and devote themself to you and you alone. You need love and affection the same as anyone else in this world and you're going to get it.
Take the day that you start to feel angry as a beginning of a new era for you. Your anger means that you are well into the healing stage and that you have some respect for yourself. You value yourself as a person and you become upset and angry when people who are supposed to love you and care for you leave you. Use your anger to move past the hurt and pain and win your ex back if that is what you want in life.
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