Patience When Trying To Get Your Girlfriend Back

By Eric Hastings


Patience really isn't going to help you to get your girlfriend back. Everyone might be telling you to be patient but that alone isn't going to get her back with you, sorry to say. While you really do need to be patient, I know that this probably isn't on your mind and you're probably flipping out trying to find out how you can get her back. Honestly though, being patient is necessary if you ever hope to get her back.

I do know what you're going through. I've been there before. You're freaking out and the stuff that is running through your head is driving you crazy. You create scenarios of what happened or what is happening or what is going to happen in the future that probably have nothing to do with reality. Right now, you are probably at an all-time low and I'm going to help you before you do something that will drive that final nail in the coffin of what used to be your relationship with your girlfriend.

What can you do to relieve some of these nightmares that run through your head? What can you to do relax and start to see things as they really are and regain some of your composure? You have to admit that your girlfriend is probably not going to want to have anything to do with you if you're acting crazy and no matter how well you think you can hide it, she will know that you're freaking out. You need to get back into a more settled frame of mind and get back to being that cool, calm guy that she fell in love with before you try anything to get her back.

Probably the best thing I can tell you right now is that no matter what you need to not react to these thoughts. Understand them for what they are and realize that they probably aren't based in any sort of reality. Know that no matter what is going on, it probably isn't even close to what you're thinking right now. You're not psychic, are you? I didn't think so. So, calling her up and accusing her of something or even just calling hoping to find out who she's with is just going to make you look like you're nuts and further kill your chances of getting your girlfriend back.

You might think that you've got yourself under control and that on the outside nobody would know that you're overcome with these thoughts and emotions but your girlfriend will know. If you think that you can play it cool and that she will never know what you're up to then think again. Women have a weird sense that can pick up on this kind of stuff and your girlfriend knows you pretty well, wouldn't you say? So, any attempt to get her back in your present state is just going to ruin your chances of winning her back further up the road. Women dig a guy that is sure of himself and has self-confidence. If you're not feeling it then she's going to know it.

You can get that confidence back and get your girlfriend back by having a solid plan of action that has been proven to work. This plan should include some understanding of what makes women fall in love, and I'm not talking about buying her flowers or gifts. I'm talking about knowing what psychological hot buttons to push and how to get her to start thinking about you again. I'm talking about working from the inside out and having her fall in love with you all over again. Where there's a will there's a way and you can get your girlfriend back if that's what you really want.




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