You did it. You were wrong. You know that you were wrong and you freely admit it. But no matter how wrong you know you are and how sorry you are about it, your girlfriend still doesn't want to get back together. Things just blew up and before you knew it you were broken up and now it seems like there's nothing that you can do to get her back.
But can you turn things around and show her how sorry you are? Can you get that second chance that you're dying for and show her that you're serious? Talking seems to be getting you nowhere and it's as if she doesn't even care anymore. You are serious about making things right because you know that you were wrong but what can you do to make her see that your intentions are pure and that you really do love her?
Maybe you have this great idea that you can buy her something special. Maybe there's something that you know she really wants. After all, this particular present would show her that you do listen to her and that you care about her. You can always say that it was a special surprise that you got for her before the two of you had your blowup and that you still wanted her to have it. Could this work and could this help you to get her to change her mind about breaking up with you?
While this is a very nice gesture and I'm sure you know your girlfriend's likes and dislikes better than anyone else, right now isn't the time for gifts. A gift is only going to be seen as an attempt to bribe her and win her favor. You have to remember that your girlfriend isn't stupid and she knows you pretty well also. She knows that you want to get back together and trying to win her over with gifts or even heartfelt words just isn't going to get her back right now.
You may have heard this popular advice that you should just wait her out to get her back. Maybe someone told you that she's just being emotional and that you should just give her time to cool off and then she'll come back to you. You might think that the love that she feels for you will resurface and that one Saturday morning she'll just show up at your door and throw her arms around you.
While this is a nice dream to have and I must admit that you are on the right track, just waiting her out alone isn't going to help you to get her back. Yes, absolutely wait for things to cool off. Trying to talk to her while emotions are still running high and trying to convince her to come back to you is only going to make matters worse. So, save your breath, give her some time to chill out and come up with a game plan.
One of the most important things you need to realize is that it's going to be your girlfriend's emotions that will determine whether or not you get back together. Every decision that she makes is based upon how she feels. Right now you make her feel angry and annoyed so stay away from her. Your goal should be to make her feel butterflies in her stomach again and make her heart beat a little faster the next time she sees you again. Knowing how to play off of her emotions is essential to getting her back and there honestly isn't another way that a woman falls in love with a man. Does that make sense to you?
But can you turn things around and show her how sorry you are? Can you get that second chance that you're dying for and show her that you're serious? Talking seems to be getting you nowhere and it's as if she doesn't even care anymore. You are serious about making things right because you know that you were wrong but what can you do to make her see that your intentions are pure and that you really do love her?
Maybe you have this great idea that you can buy her something special. Maybe there's something that you know she really wants. After all, this particular present would show her that you do listen to her and that you care about her. You can always say that it was a special surprise that you got for her before the two of you had your blowup and that you still wanted her to have it. Could this work and could this help you to get her to change her mind about breaking up with you?
While this is a very nice gesture and I'm sure you know your girlfriend's likes and dislikes better than anyone else, right now isn't the time for gifts. A gift is only going to be seen as an attempt to bribe her and win her favor. You have to remember that your girlfriend isn't stupid and she knows you pretty well also. She knows that you want to get back together and trying to win her over with gifts or even heartfelt words just isn't going to get her back right now.
You may have heard this popular advice that you should just wait her out to get her back. Maybe someone told you that she's just being emotional and that you should just give her time to cool off and then she'll come back to you. You might think that the love that she feels for you will resurface and that one Saturday morning she'll just show up at your door and throw her arms around you.
While this is a nice dream to have and I must admit that you are on the right track, just waiting her out alone isn't going to help you to get her back. Yes, absolutely wait for things to cool off. Trying to talk to her while emotions are still running high and trying to convince her to come back to you is only going to make matters worse. So, save your breath, give her some time to chill out and come up with a game plan.
One of the most important things you need to realize is that it's going to be your girlfriend's emotions that will determine whether or not you get back together. Every decision that she makes is based upon how she feels. Right now you make her feel angry and annoyed so stay away from her. Your goal should be to make her feel butterflies in her stomach again and make her heart beat a little faster the next time she sees you again. Knowing how to play off of her emotions is essential to getting her back and there honestly isn't another way that a woman falls in love with a man. Does that make sense to you?
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