How You Can Flirt With Girls

By Paul James


When you flirt with a lady you eliminate the fear of rejection. No man wants to hear a No answer after asking a lady for a date. Flirting will also enable you determine if she is interested in you before getting the confidence to ask her for a date. Unfortunately, many guys don't know where to start from when flirting with a girl. Women are good in flirting as compared to men. This is what you should do to improve your ways of flirting.

Separate yourself from the group. Your success rate increases when you separate yourself from the group as compared to flirting when in the group. If you decide either to make contact with the girl immediately or to go to another part of the establishment alone then just do that.

Smile. Irrespective of your mood you just need to smile as this will help you when it comes to finding a girlfriend to date. It's of no significance if the smile is fake it will always help you meet girls and get a date. A smile creates an impression you are friendly thus a girl will flirt back.

Make eye contact. When you enter a room and scan around chances are that you'll make eye contact with a girl. Even when you approach a girl you should make eye contact because this shows you are interested in her. You can either wait for her to make the next move or jump into it yourself.

Say hello. Approaching the lady of your interest and greeting her is a crucial step forgotten by many men. The next step is to ask a general question, such as "are you enjoying yourself." Many men mess again by following the greeting with a cheesy pickup line. Pickup lines are good when flirting but some aren't good to use.

Don't panic. It is common when embarrassing moments occur when flirting with the opposite sex. For example she may say offensive words or you may tell an awful joke or there may be pauses in a conversation. If this happens panic won't help but instead laugh it off or just go on with the conversation.

End the Flirting on Your own way. If you're not interested after talking to her or you do not have words to say then end your flirting in your own way. Saying you have to get going or getting back to your friends are some of the ways you can use. Make sure she gets your phone number before you leave. If she is interested in a date she'll call you to tell you about it.

Be friendly to those girls who want to flirt with you. If a girl approaches you and you are not interested in her don't blow her off. You ought to have a quick conversation, share a dance and even share some drinks with the girl. If the girl you like is watching ensure she sees you are good to others because it is women's habit to eye men in public settings.




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