Do you suspect your boyfriend is stepping out on you? Is it your female intuition or is it just paranoia? How can you be sure that he is cheating on you? If you were to ask him he would just deny it but it's driving you crazy. You want to know for sure whether or not he is cheating on you but what are some of the clues that will tell you for sure that something is up?
Setting him up or trying to bluff him into confessing the fact that he is cheating on you is a risky game. If he's any good at playing poke he'll simply deny it and you'll never be able to accuse him of this again. After all, it really could be that he's not cheating on you and it's just your own mind playing tricks on you. You create scenarios inside your head of what you think is going on and the truth might be something completely innocent that is causing all of the strange behavior and the strange vibe that you're detecting from him. But how can you know for sure?
Maybe you have noticed that he has been acting different towards you. Maybe his attitude has changed or he seems preoccupied often when you are together. Any sort of change might make you think that something is wrong and maybe the thought that he is carrying on with someone else has come to your mind. Maybe he's very protective of his cell phone or you have noticed that he keeps it turned off when you are together. Maybe he has it in his pocket all the time or he has put a password on his phone to keep you from using it or checking his phone for text messages or call history.
While none of these actions might indicate that your boyfriend or husband is cheating on you, it's the change in his attitude towards his cell phone that should be sending you a signal that something is going on. If you want to test this theory out, simply ask him to give you his cell phone sometimes. If he hesitates or you see a look of horror on his face or if he flat out refuses then you know that something is up.
Cheaters often use email to communicate and if you notice that he is more secretive about his internet useage then you might wonder if he is cheating on you. If he creates an account on his computer that is password protected or if he clears his internet history after he has been on your computer then you might want to check out what is going on. By default, a computer will hold onto your internet history for 20 days. If it is set to delete the history when the browser is closed or if you notice that there is no internet history then you might wonder what he's trying to hide.
Even though none of these changes in him might necessarily mean that he is cheating on you, they are enough to make you want to look a little closer at what's going on in his life. Is there a new girl at work? Has he started talking about someone new in his life? Does he have a new female friend that he talks about? Keep your eyes and ears open while remaining calm and avoiding accusations and before long the truth will surface. And then what do you do?
Whether you know for sure that he's cheating or you only suspect that something is going on, you have two choices. You can either confront him and be prepared to leave or you can cheat-proof your relationship. By understanding your boyfriend or husband and what he needs in a relationship you can make him love you so much that the thought of cheating on you simply won't be an option for him. It's true that men need to feel a certain way and the reasons why a man cheats is not because of what you think. A man cheats because another woman makes him feel special and handsome and intelligent and wanted. Once you understand how to give him these things and you cheat-proof your relationship he will never cheat on you ever.
Setting him up or trying to bluff him into confessing the fact that he is cheating on you is a risky game. If he's any good at playing poke he'll simply deny it and you'll never be able to accuse him of this again. After all, it really could be that he's not cheating on you and it's just your own mind playing tricks on you. You create scenarios inside your head of what you think is going on and the truth might be something completely innocent that is causing all of the strange behavior and the strange vibe that you're detecting from him. But how can you know for sure?
Maybe you have noticed that he has been acting different towards you. Maybe his attitude has changed or he seems preoccupied often when you are together. Any sort of change might make you think that something is wrong and maybe the thought that he is carrying on with someone else has come to your mind. Maybe he's very protective of his cell phone or you have noticed that he keeps it turned off when you are together. Maybe he has it in his pocket all the time or he has put a password on his phone to keep you from using it or checking his phone for text messages or call history.
While none of these actions might indicate that your boyfriend or husband is cheating on you, it's the change in his attitude towards his cell phone that should be sending you a signal that something is going on. If you want to test this theory out, simply ask him to give you his cell phone sometimes. If he hesitates or you see a look of horror on his face or if he flat out refuses then you know that something is up.
Cheaters often use email to communicate and if you notice that he is more secretive about his internet useage then you might wonder if he is cheating on you. If he creates an account on his computer that is password protected or if he clears his internet history after he has been on your computer then you might want to check out what is going on. By default, a computer will hold onto your internet history for 20 days. If it is set to delete the history when the browser is closed or if you notice that there is no internet history then you might wonder what he's trying to hide.
Even though none of these changes in him might necessarily mean that he is cheating on you, they are enough to make you want to look a little closer at what's going on in his life. Is there a new girl at work? Has he started talking about someone new in his life? Does he have a new female friend that he talks about? Keep your eyes and ears open while remaining calm and avoiding accusations and before long the truth will surface. And then what do you do?
Whether you know for sure that he's cheating or you only suspect that something is going on, you have two choices. You can either confront him and be prepared to leave or you can cheat-proof your relationship. By understanding your boyfriend or husband and what he needs in a relationship you can make him love you so much that the thought of cheating on you simply won't be an option for him. It's true that men need to feel a certain way and the reasons why a man cheats is not because of what you think. A man cheats because another woman makes him feel special and handsome and intelligent and wanted. Once you understand how to give him these things and you cheat-proof your relationship he will never cheat on you ever.
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