Are you afraid that you'll never be able to win your husband or boyfriend back? Are you tormented by doubts and saddened by the thought of never being with him again like you once were? Are you up one minute and feeling optimistic about your chances of getting back together and then depressed and at a loss the next over your chances of getting him back? Do you worry that he will move on without you and find happiness in the arms of another woman?
It's time for you to stop torturing yourself and for you to realize that if you want to get your ex back then you will. Yes, you heard me correctly. If it is the desire of your heart to get back together with your ex and for him to fall in love with you all over again like you dream about inside your head then I encourage you to hold fast to that dream and don't let anyone or anything destroy it for you. That means even yourself. Don't even let doubt spend a moment inside your head and try with everything that you have to replace it with nothing but the assurance that if this is what you really want then you will have it.
Even though you might want everyone that you know to support you and tell you that you have the ability to get your ex back, it really isn't vital to your success. You might think that if you share your thoughts with someone and they tell you that you have a chance that this will help you somehow. Maybe if someone that knows the two of you tells you that they also have no doubt that the two of you will get back together then it will make it more possible somehow or at least make you feel better.
I hate to tell you this but most people don't really care about what happens in your life. Of the few people that you do know and who you are close to, if you lay it all out for them and tell them that you want to get back together with your ex they very well might try to dissuade you. They don't want you to get your heart broken and most people think that it's best just to move on and forget about someone that has hurt you. Just remember that this is an outsider looking in and making one of the most important decisions of your life. They have nothing at stake other than probably being tired of hearing about you wanting to get back together with your ex.
If getting your husband or boyfriend back is really important to you then I suggest that you keep it to yourself. It is your own private business and right now you are probably wavering a lot yourself on your chances of getting him back. Don't let someone else do even more damage to your dream and your mental state when it comes to your love life. Nobody values that relationship more than you right now and even though you might think that it's impossible at times, some of the most beautiful things in life were once thought to be impossible. If getting your ex back is what is going to make you happy in your life then who should tell you to do anything other than try to get him back?
If you start to get down and doubt your chances of getting him back because logically it all looks so impossible then remember that logic has no place when it comes to matters of the heart. No matter how horrible things might appear right now, things are always changing. It doesn't matter if he looks like he has moved on with someone else or if he tells you that he hates you, that very well might change in the near future. Getting your ex back is not impossible and couples are getting back together every day on the face of this huge planet. What makes you think that your case is the worst in the world?
If you feel doubt creeping in, understand that it's your own self defense mechanism trying to protect you from further heartbreak. It is your logical mind trying to over rule your heart. You might start to think of all the reasons why it isn't going to happen but have you thought of the one reason why it can happen? You love your ex and you know that deep down inside he does still love you. It's just a matter of overcoming your doubt and doing the things that will recreate that passion and desire in his heart again and you'll have him back.
It's time for you to stop torturing yourself and for you to realize that if you want to get your ex back then you will. Yes, you heard me correctly. If it is the desire of your heart to get back together with your ex and for him to fall in love with you all over again like you dream about inside your head then I encourage you to hold fast to that dream and don't let anyone or anything destroy it for you. That means even yourself. Don't even let doubt spend a moment inside your head and try with everything that you have to replace it with nothing but the assurance that if this is what you really want then you will have it.
Even though you might want everyone that you know to support you and tell you that you have the ability to get your ex back, it really isn't vital to your success. You might think that if you share your thoughts with someone and they tell you that you have a chance that this will help you somehow. Maybe if someone that knows the two of you tells you that they also have no doubt that the two of you will get back together then it will make it more possible somehow or at least make you feel better.
I hate to tell you this but most people don't really care about what happens in your life. Of the few people that you do know and who you are close to, if you lay it all out for them and tell them that you want to get back together with your ex they very well might try to dissuade you. They don't want you to get your heart broken and most people think that it's best just to move on and forget about someone that has hurt you. Just remember that this is an outsider looking in and making one of the most important decisions of your life. They have nothing at stake other than probably being tired of hearing about you wanting to get back together with your ex.
If getting your husband or boyfriend back is really important to you then I suggest that you keep it to yourself. It is your own private business and right now you are probably wavering a lot yourself on your chances of getting him back. Don't let someone else do even more damage to your dream and your mental state when it comes to your love life. Nobody values that relationship more than you right now and even though you might think that it's impossible at times, some of the most beautiful things in life were once thought to be impossible. If getting your ex back is what is going to make you happy in your life then who should tell you to do anything other than try to get him back?
If you start to get down and doubt your chances of getting him back because logically it all looks so impossible then remember that logic has no place when it comes to matters of the heart. No matter how horrible things might appear right now, things are always changing. It doesn't matter if he looks like he has moved on with someone else or if he tells you that he hates you, that very well might change in the near future. Getting your ex back is not impossible and couples are getting back together every day on the face of this huge planet. What makes you think that your case is the worst in the world?
If you feel doubt creeping in, understand that it's your own self defense mechanism trying to protect you from further heartbreak. It is your logical mind trying to over rule your heart. You might start to think of all the reasons why it isn't going to happen but have you thought of the one reason why it can happen? You love your ex and you know that deep down inside he does still love you. It's just a matter of overcoming your doubt and doing the things that will recreate that passion and desire in his heart again and you'll have him back.
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