How to Catch the Eye of a Woman

By Benjamin Maxwell


The dating game is very complex and usually the man will mess it up. Women have almost given up on the idea of finding their ideal man since most of them do not meet their expectations. When it comes to attracting women it is the simple things that matter. The men do not have to pretend being what they are not. Women are keen to notice these things.

When taking her out something as simple as pulling out a chair will be noted. Women are attracted to gentlemen. They will treat her with respect and appreciation. Opening the door for her whether a car or building could be a catalyst to getting a second date. The location chosen for the date needs to be condusive. It should be a place where they could talk without any interruptions.

The type of conversation matters. This is where most men and even women fail. On the part of the man he should listen attentively in order to grasp some details concerning the woman. These points could be very beneficial in future. They include her favorite things like colors music and food. When one remembers such details in buying a gift it will definitely score some good points and soon a good loving relationship will commence.

Women love compliments or being flirted with. They never shoe this and even at times protest. However they like being praised on how good they look. As a man always tries to appreciate their new looks if it is hairstyle or a new outfit. This means the man has to be very keen and notice the changes she makes on her appearance since in most cases she is doing it to be noticed.

Another tip for men is to try to remember her special days. Surprise her on her birthdays or valentines. This will earn you good points and make courting much easier since she will accept you more. During such days she might give the man small hints as to what she desires. The element of surprise on such days is recommended. This means the man needs to be creative and think outside the box.

There are things that turn off a woman as soon as she sets eyes on a man. Bragging is a character most women hate and will often turn down any advances made by the man. Some men will want to show off their new cars or apartments. Having wealth is not a bad thing but flaunting it to a woman will bring negative results. Instead use what you have to make her feel special and more valuable than the money.

Finally attracting a woman involves confidence and proper self grooming. No lady would like a clumsy dirty man to call her boyfriend. They look for smaller details like the cologne and clothes a man wears. The shoes also play a big role in attracting a woman. a smart looking man will stand out in the crowd. The level of confidence is equally essential. It is seen the pick up lines they use. Lack of confidence will get him no where. Pick up lines should also not be lame. The first words uttered will determine the onset of the conversation.




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