How to Avoid Infidelity

By Alex Shant


If for some reason you had a relationship with this person because you have to fill the gaps of loneliness and despair, but you know he or she is not your type then you should let go. Don't be a bad person by bringing that person into your life. He or she deserves someone far better than you are. On the other hand, if there is a potential of developing such relationship into a meaningful and intimate one, you may not want to pull out just yet. A high quality connection is which both of you feel understood at least to some degree and no alternative others gives greater emotional involvement. The more both of you feel understood, the better the relationship. However, understanding must involve security in which trust and integrity are the key factors.

Number One: Trust.
The statement involves if there are no monsters then there are no whores apply to anybody. If your perception on your partner is that of a monster and that he or she is a liar, a cheat or a murderer then one feels the feeling of uncertainty. Thinking becomes like the wind and it becomes subversive. It is better of a lyre out of discord rather than you, being one should be out of harmony with yourself and contradict yourself. By this, it is better to do wrong than to be wronged. For what if you are suspicious of your partner, you no longer become rational. All your actions are stimulated by revenge. You do wrong things and become an infidel because you do not trust your partner. In order to avoid cheating, you have to be assured that you trust your partner wholeheartedly and if you don't, just stay away from that relationship for good.

Number two: Integrity.
In being faithful, three main questions must be involved: Whom am I? Who ought I become? How am I to get there?

In the whom am I, you experiment on your attractiveness and which level are you desirable on the opposite sex. You list down how many times you get someone asking your phone number. Many occasions, you might be disgusted if some quick realization even an eleven-year old teen would ask you for a date. People don't look up highly on you. Take note that if someone would easily ask you your number, it does not mean you are the most sought after. You're maybe just cheap.

In who I ought to become, find time checking your wardrobe and this is the parlor section. Gather flaws on yourself. Exchange critical views from other people. If people would say you look like a beast then that would mean you dressed skimpily but on simple styles. Your look then would be simple but not fashionable. Don't cry out loud for this frustration. Take advantage on meeting fashionable ends but looking subtle yet discreet. You can be interesting on stylish outfits, gaining admiration, respect and integrity.




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