How do I get my girlfriend to love me more? Probably, some of you are asking this question right now and that is precisely the reason why you are reading this article. There are a lot of dating tips posted on the internet, but what I noticed is that the male population is under represented when it comes to getting dating tips and advice. So now, I join the number of male relationship advisers in sharing information on how to have a stronger relationship with women.
First of all, do not settle just because you fear that you might not have another relationship after this one. Likewise, if you say you are committed to you girlfriend, commit with all your heart. Look at the wonderful qualities that your girlfriend have instead of focusing on the negative. You will see that there are more things to be thankful for than to resent. In addition, your girlfriend will surely love you more when she sees how committed and loyal you are to her. Remember, the benefits far outweigh the negative aspects of your relationship.
Some men think that playing the field is not a bad thing especially if there is still no legal papers that bind a couple. However, this attitude is what destroys a relationship. Some tend to be careless when handling relationships to the point of ignoring or taking the girl for granted. Never do this because it will not help your cause of wanting to hear your girl say, "I love you" to you often. Continue treating her this way or taking her for granted, and soon, you will regret that you let a wonderful relationship slip away.
Constant fights with your partner could result to stressed relationships. Ask yourself, "is it worth it to fight with your girlfriend when what you want is to bring the relationship to the next stage?" Maybe this would make you realize that you do not always have to win each argument if it means losing the one you love.
Excitement helps a lot in keeping the love alive. Thus, surprise each other to keep the boredom away. Truth is, the reason why relationships become stagnant and boring is when the couple stops trying to please each other, and starts expecting too much from one another. Therefore, always ensure that you do stuff together. If one does not like another's activity, then compromise that the next time, both of you will try to enjoy the other partner's interests.
Remember that you can love a woman without having to understand her fully. There is truth in the saying that "no matter how much you spend talking about a problem, a solution may not be available to solve the issue". In fact, sometimes, the best thing to do is to just listen to her and accept her reactions. You do not have to say anything, just listening to her rant is sometimes more than enough already to make her realize how much you love her.
First of all, do not settle just because you fear that you might not have another relationship after this one. Likewise, if you say you are committed to you girlfriend, commit with all your heart. Look at the wonderful qualities that your girlfriend have instead of focusing on the negative. You will see that there are more things to be thankful for than to resent. In addition, your girlfriend will surely love you more when she sees how committed and loyal you are to her. Remember, the benefits far outweigh the negative aspects of your relationship.
Some men think that playing the field is not a bad thing especially if there is still no legal papers that bind a couple. However, this attitude is what destroys a relationship. Some tend to be careless when handling relationships to the point of ignoring or taking the girl for granted. Never do this because it will not help your cause of wanting to hear your girl say, "I love you" to you often. Continue treating her this way or taking her for granted, and soon, you will regret that you let a wonderful relationship slip away.
Constant fights with your partner could result to stressed relationships. Ask yourself, "is it worth it to fight with your girlfriend when what you want is to bring the relationship to the next stage?" Maybe this would make you realize that you do not always have to win each argument if it means losing the one you love.
Excitement helps a lot in keeping the love alive. Thus, surprise each other to keep the boredom away. Truth is, the reason why relationships become stagnant and boring is when the couple stops trying to please each other, and starts expecting too much from one another. Therefore, always ensure that you do stuff together. If one does not like another's activity, then compromise that the next time, both of you will try to enjoy the other partner's interests.
Remember that you can love a woman without having to understand her fully. There is truth in the saying that "no matter how much you spend talking about a problem, a solution may not be available to solve the issue". In fact, sometimes, the best thing to do is to just listen to her and accept her reactions. You do not have to say anything, just listening to her rant is sometimes more than enough already to make her realize how much you love her.
About the Author:
James Patrick here, your neighborhood dating teacher. If you want to know more about how do you get a girlfriend to commit to the next level, come visit me at: http://www.getgirl.net.
