How to deal with Fear of Marriage

By Alex Shant


Marriage is a grandest step two couples have to go through. In fact, it is the ultimate test of how strong they are and how strong they will be. This is the reason why most couples are afraid to settle down. It is not just the marriage per se that they are afraid of. It is the entirety of the situation and the aftermath of it that couples are so anxious about.

The question is, how do they go about with this leap in their relationship flawlessly? How will couples survive the anxiousness of marriage? How will they be able to pursue the Wedding bells realizing that they made the best choice ever in their entire life? The process is actually very easy and quick. The key to a successful pre-marriage are Diversion, Excitement and a little seduction.

Once he pops the proposal and you said yes, the first thing you have to do is go for a diversion. Do not think about it too much. There are two things that will happen if a man thinks too much. First, he will be too happy and second, he will be too tired to be pleased. In effect, control your emotions in such a way that you do not explode too much. Save those emotions on your wedding day itself. How do you divert you attention then? You can go shop, go out with your friends or work. Whichever works for you.

After saving enough of your happiness, shed our some excitement by going out with small dates with your fianc. Make the dates as plain as possible. These dates have to be the type that feels like you just hit it off as boyfriend and girlfriends.

These ways, you will have more time to reminisce about your past and be inspired for the present. Talk about your game plans as husbands and wives during these dates. Make sure you go through an agreement. Never argue, if you see it coming, stop the conversation. Throw little seduction prior to marriage. You can wear those skimpy two piece swimsuit while on your swimming dates.




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