Question and Answer: Will my Ex Want Me Back?

By Clay Andrews


Q: I've heard about the No Contact Rule and not talking to my ex for one month. Will my ex want me back if I use the No Contact Rule method?

A: The situation actually varies. The No Contact Rule is used so that your ex would miss you and realize what it feels like to not have you in their life. Your chances are good that after using the No Contact Rule, your ex would want you back in their life. You see, the opportunity would allow them time to reflect and realize that their relationship with you was one of the most times they ever had.

Q: I heard that developing and focusing on your own life could help. Will my ex want me back if I improve my life and increase my confidence?

A: This is incredibly vital. Gaining more confidence and improving your life would be a big factor in getting back with your ex. You see, improving your life would also make you more confident about yourself. This confidence will overflow and reach other aspects of your life. Pretty soon, you'll find yourself being more confident than you were before. You can be sure your ex will notice this. With the added confidence, you'll find that your ex would find you even more attractive than before.

Q: What if I go out with someone else? Will my ex want me back if I date other people and they become jealous?

A: I suggest that you don't use this particular technique. Not only would your ex think that you are over them but it would also hurt the person you are using. Your ex would think that it is time for them to move on too if you do this.

Q: What about the "reverse psychology" I've been hearing so much about? Will my ex want me back if I use reverse psychology on them?

A: I can't really say how effective that is, but do you want it to work for you? Personally, I think it's a bad idea to make your ex want you through some Jedi mind trick instead of giving them the choice. It would be better for you to get your ex back in completely honest method - improving your personality and life! So take some time off, focus on yourself and improve your life so that the next time you see your ex, they will notice the change and realize that they made a mistake.




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